Fitting In, Is Not Belonging
Every job asks the same quiet question: will you fit in here? It’s the wrong one. Fitting in is changing yourself until a place accepts you; belonging is being accepted as you are — and the difference decides how much of your energy a role quietly costs you. The good news: a culture is always telling the truth about itself, in the interview, in the onboarding, in who gets promoted and how a mistake is handled. Here’s how to read it before and after, you say yes.